Here’s an example of how to contact a service provider:

"Hello Kendall,

I hope you’re well. My name is ____, and I am ____ years old. I found you through ____ (site) and would like to book a ___-minute session on ____ at ____.

Thank you for your time. I look forward to hearing from you."

 

The more detail you can provide about yourself and what you’re looking for, the better. While remaining respectful, of course. My booking form includes these prompts, along with a helpful guide. 

I personally prefer to “cut to the chase,” so to speak. Asking about a provider’s restrictions is not the best way to ensure we’re both on the same page, as providers are often asked about every kink or fetish imaginable. Please be specific, considerate, and kind. 

I look forward to hearing from you!